Once more.. pen down on the Paper   

                                 Fluidity of life

Life is a always fluid. The unexpected and even unimaginable can and does happen at any time. And all things, scenario, events can shift their course at any time: From bad to good, from good to bad. There is no good or bad, there just is. Surrendering to whatever that happens, without placing unnecessary importance or investing excessive emotions.

Blaming leads to nowhere, except temporary fulfillment for the ego. Yet, the ego does not stay fulfilled and will seek out more and more pain. Any kind of blaming thoughts, words are ego-filling unproductive and lead to our own suffering, even if they are REASONABLY JUSTIFIED...

When things get low, do all that you can to come back to your center and remember that you are a luminous and empowered being.

 you have the power and choice to bring the light into any situation that may appear dark.

No matter how unfair a situation may present itself, remaining in self -pity, blame and resentment will only hurt ourselves and draws us deeper into that darkness.

we have only two choices: To remain in darkness or bring in the light/ choose to prolong the suffering or to end it and move on......

Regardless of what is happening the ups and downs of life will continue to prevail and  resisting to the down times will only delay the coming of the up times. Remember that, this all is only temporary focus on what can be learned. 

TRUST THAT THE UP TIMES IS JUST AROUND THE CORNER.......    

Happy Birthday Ashi

    14^th of March 2017

                                               On your birthday Dearest Mishika.

We just thought of writing something to you as blessings. As it’s your birthday today.

From the day you came into this world. We were as proud as can be blessed with a daughter. So we celebrate this day every year  as” SPECIAL DAY” . To mark another milestone in your life.

 You  are of  FIVE  today. Neither too grown up nor too small. But yes you are independent now.

You can understand some of the gyan , we are writing here. ..

Your future does not lay in front of you.  It lies deep inside you. Dear daughter Misha, Life is not about finding yourself  but it’s about how you create yourself.  Always remember , when you  feel  life as roller coaster, climb into the front , throw your arms in the air ,enjoy and ride  the phase of life.

When life gets crazy, you try to do something normal and when life becomes normal do something crazy

to add fun  in life.  Always be nice and helping hand to people, in any manner/way , if you can…

Misha, Life is all about executing plan” B” Or you can say alternative of any situation favorable or un favorable. Practice the art listening more, expressing yourself , your thoughts,your priorties  and yes  be  clam and patient . As anger leads us to nowhere.  Words plays  important  role in our life. Be careful before you giggle with words , as  it can make something and vice a versa  .Take your time to think –rethink and  do the best  you can , depending upon the situtation  in front of you.

Most importantly , find the joy in your all choices and  never ever  feel your self insecure as we all are for you , with you and behind you  always.

We are proud of you, the way you do things , the way you carry yourself and  off course your  nakhrass….. OMG!!!   J J

And  lastly ,  No  matter what ever happens in life, You will continue to be the best daughter to us!!

We will continue to belive in you and choices you will be making further moving in life.

We trust you and love you…!!!!!!

Happy birthday Anna  darling  Mishika….

With lots and lots of love

From  Anna and chachi.

  Feel The Life Around    
                                                                                                                                                                              I feel writing gives vent to our thought process. Which is actually mandatory for every human being. I was just wondering what keeps us living each day,each moment to the fullest?..Three things which plays vital role in anyone's life are. WORRY,REGRET & FEAR..

WORRY is like living in the future instead of the moment. Worry is a pessimistic approach to life. When we live in worry,we constantly asking to ourself "what if this happens? And what if that happens? ..
We trade our life for shadowy possibilities piling one on top of the next until the weight of"what if pins us in our pessimism.

REGRET is like living in the past instead of the moment,  regret is a shameful approach to life. We look behind and wish things were different...we constantly tell ourselves " if I had done that differently  and if I had done that differently I would be there instead of here........

We trade our life for guilt  and sorrow,  examing every decisions until our second guessing becomes paralysis and we stop moving forward...

FEAR is like living in uncertainty instead of now, fear is a timid approach to life. When we live in fear we hold back,denying ourself and others a world of possibilities...

We trade our life for things that  could go wrong......

The antidote to worry is refocusing on now.. Right this moment. .what we see,smell,taste,feel..
What is there in our lap and in our life right this moment. ...
And this is what is real..........

The cure for regrets is two fold...
Acceptance and forgiveness. ..
It is what it is.... Sometimes we cannot change what was.....
We can only build on what is.....
We did the best we could with all of our resources at that moment. .and we will do much more now for all that matters at this moment. ...

The solution to fear is faith....
We have been protected and provided for right upto this very minute. ..it will continue. ..Do good for others and in return good will come to us gradually...

If we make inventory of things we are thankful for, we can see the big pictures..

This moment will never come again.. savour it for all it is now.....

Let's enhance the positivity around us with each passing days......
Life will be easy and bit simpler...

                      

                    Once more -Pen Down on paper 

Someday everything will make perfect sense. So for now laugh at the confusion,smile through the tears and keep reminding yourself that everything happens for a reason. When winter arrives,the trees must sign in sadness as they see their leaves falling. They say: we will never be like before of course or still, but what is the meaning of renewing oneself? The next leaves will have their own nature, they pertain to a new summer that approaches and which will never be like the one that passed....

LIVING means - Changing and the seasons repeats these lessons to us every year. Changing  means going through the period of depression. Where we still don't know the new and we have to forget everything we used to know ....

But if we are little patient, spring ends up arriving and we forget the winter of our  helplessness...

CHANGE AND RENEWAL ARE THE LAWS OF LIFE...

It is best to get used to them and not suffer about things that only exist to bring us JOY!! 

CHILDHOOD – A SPECIAL PHASE OF OUR LIFE…

14^TH OF NOVEMBER 2014 weather out side is not too hot and not too cold. And I think to make mood to write something our surroundings and weathers do affect us. So on the auspicious occasion of CHILDRENS DAY I thought of extending some blessings to my Ten kids.

Dear Shristi,Lilly,Jasmine,Brodian, Amey Vedant, Ansh, Appu, Aarush and Aditi,

 Today is Children’s Day, A day specially meant for small kids, kiddos to make them feel how special they are. Like you all are adorable grand Children’s, Sons and Daughters of our family.

Childhood is the most beautiful of all life’s seasons. Where we don’t know that, we are making memories for us to cherish all life. Where people like you ,for who ever you are. These are days to have loads and loads of fun, non -stop blabbering, lots of laughs, lots of cry, lots of innocence and many more things.

A stage in your life, when all that matters to you are toys, chocolates and more, obliviously to the world waiting outside for you. When you seek solace in your mother’s lap and a ride with father take you to the world of fantasies.

I wish all Ten stars of  family –

 Laugh, Jump,Sing,Dance,Imagine,Paint, Play, Grow,Learn,Explore,Discover,Create  and BE HAPPY ALWAYS!!

Wishing you A very happy Children’s day….. God Bless You all!!!

Love you all……

    

On Daughter's Day- Aditi Mishra

On Daughters Day…

Once again sunny daughter’s day is here in front of us shining so bright as ever. But I am pleasured to realise that some thing more special than this is there. A little Angle “ADITI MISHRA“ – The Charm and  Our adorable little Angle is here during this time.

Dear  little Darling  to day  is Daughters  Day and to  this  your  youngest  Maasi  thought  of  extending some  blessing  on your  way.   15^th of may 2014  - I still remember  very  clearly  my expression when I heard about  your  arrival in our lives.  I was in the office and I laughed at the top of my voice when your beloved Nanimaa told me about you.  People around me in the office were surprised thinking what happen to me? Infact my director came out of his cabin and asked me what happened Sarita…?  I just gave my bright smile and said so loudly.. Finally – “Little Angle arrived” J J

I always wanted you little angle – a little princes younger to me in the family. Someone who can copy me and steal my dresses and other things ..:-) . You know, Daughters are always special for ever and ever. And keep filling our heart with never ending love.   Right now you are in front of my eyes and I can feel the brightness your presence in making here..!!  So delightful, adorable, unique, humble and thoughtful you are. Your smile gives strength to conquer the world. When you wrap your hand around my finger. It puts smile in my heart and everything becomes clearer and makes me realize what life is all about. Your elder Maasi, your mother and I are also daughters of this family and we always consider ourself blissful for being part of this family. We have always cherished and are and will always. Hope you also take these things further now….

You are Miracle that never ceases being miraculous … J

I wish you TONS OF BLESSINGS, FELICITY and LAUGHTER TOO FOR EVER…

With Loads and Loads of love hugs and kisses… Dear Sonn..

HAPPY DAUGHTER’S DAY…!

Why We Cultivate Defensive Attitude to "FEELINGS"

                            Why We Cultivate Defensive Attitude to "FEELINGS"


Life is So Beautiful and Happening  too. During our short span of life on this planet called earth.We behave and act  differently each day as such not a single day is same for us in any way. Every day comes to us with new challenges, happiness and sometimes sad moments  as well.

Many a times  we find our self laughing at the top of our voice with  tears in our eyes. Its  nothing but the way to  went out  our feelings Like feeling of tenderness,disappointment,Joy,Pity ,Resignation, Fear and many more things..........
When we go to a film with a sad ending . We  could see hear clearly all over the cinema blowing  their noses. I  can recall Movie name " Talash" . It was a late night movie with a friend as i was so eager to see that  movie. Somewhere some part of movie i associated  with my life and becoz of that  i still  remember  very clearly i came out of theater with tears in my  eyes and  it was rolling on my cheeks  till i reached home.So i never  felt odd for the way i behaved that day infact  i always remember that  movie  with  smile on face that through that movie i made vent  for my feeling  to express. 
We all are not that smart at hiding feelings and i personally believe we should not instead you express it. Simply Express when you fall in love, express when someone did something of proud or ashamed,express when you are worried or puzzled..
Treat  the  feeling  the way it is meant for ...
Feelings are the language to keep us  in touch with  each other. And  Secret of getting along with people is to recognize how they feel and to let them know you know... When  Someone is rude or quarrelsome. It's often a way to say " Pay Attention to my Feelings" 
Awareness of feelings comes to us naturally,if we let it...
I have one beautiful instance, which i would like to share here.
 Few days back, while walking by a school. i  saw many small children's   holding colourful balloon in  their hand and waiting for their school bus to come. And Suddenly, a string of balloon slipped from the fingers of  3 years kid. He curled up his face with the grief of  loss...
The  kid standing next to him , caught his eyes and stretch out his arms and released his own balloon too.. and to this, that 3 years old kid  lough out loudly  along with tears in his eyes..
Beautiful Moment to Capture!!!!!!
Speechlesss.........
Feelings wells up from the depth of personality,shape by a lifetime of experience and provide a reliable and  automatic self guidance system. It  may not help you  in playing  stock market or paying your income tax returns or acquiring your  professional goals  but yes it will help us in  all  real fundamental issues of life...
Like  to decided whom to marry, whom to trust as a friend or colleague ,  what to do with when we face death or life..etc..
Than  why do we deny our feelings?? Why  we prepare defensive attitude for  feelings??
When  we subtract  feelings from marriage,friendship or work what is left than??
Two person sharing money, food shelter even sex  but that  two will remain stranger  for ever if there is absence of feelings..

The one thing that can tie relations into one are " Share of feelings" 

"Don't be afraid of your Feelings" Just share and spread Happiness!!