Feel The Life Around    
                                                                                                                                                                              I feel writing gives vent to our thought process. Which is actually mandatory for every human being. I was just wondering what keeps us living each day,each moment to the fullest?..Three things which plays vital role in anyone's life are. WORRY,REGRET & FEAR..

WORRY is like living in the future instead of the moment. Worry is a pessimistic approach to life. When we live in worry,we constantly asking to ourself "what if this happens? And what if that happens? ..
We trade our life for shadowy possibilities piling one on top of the next until the weight of"what if pins us in our pessimism.

REGRET is like living in the past instead of the moment,  regret is a shameful approach to life. We look behind and wish things were different...we constantly tell ourselves " if I had done that differently  and if I had done that differently I would be there instead of here........

We trade our life for guilt  and sorrow,  examing every decisions until our second guessing becomes paralysis and we stop moving forward...

FEAR is like living in uncertainty instead of now, fear is a timid approach to life. When we live in fear we hold back,denying ourself and others a world of possibilities...

We trade our life for things that  could go wrong......

The antidote to worry is refocusing on now.. Right this moment. .what we see,smell,taste,feel..
What is there in our lap and in our life right this moment. ...
And this is what is real..........

The cure for regrets is two fold...
Acceptance and forgiveness. ..
It is what it is.... Sometimes we cannot change what was.....
We can only build on what is.....
We did the best we could with all of our resources at that moment. .and we will do much more now for all that matters at this moment. ...

The solution to fear is faith....
We have been protected and provided for right upto this very minute. ..it will continue. ..Do good for others and in return good will come to us gradually...

If we make inventory of things we are thankful for, we can see the big pictures..

This moment will never come again.. savour it for all it is now.....

Let's enhance the positivity around us with each passing days......
Life will be easy and bit simpler...

                      

                    Once more -Pen Down on paper 

Someday everything will make perfect sense. So for now laugh at the confusion,smile through the tears and keep reminding yourself that everything happens for a reason. When winter arrives,the trees must sign in sadness as they see their leaves falling. They say: we will never be like before of course or still, but what is the meaning of renewing oneself? The next leaves will have their own nature, they pertain to a new summer that approaches and which will never be like the one that passed....

LIVING means - Changing and the seasons repeats these lessons to us every year. Changing  means going through the period of depression. Where we still don't know the new and we have to forget everything we used to know ....

But if we are little patient, spring ends up arriving and we forget the winter of our  helplessness...

CHANGE AND RENEWAL ARE THE LAWS OF LIFE...

It is best to get used to them and not suffer about things that only exist to bring us JOY!!